That’s the main message in my TEDx talk, “Relapse is Part of Recovery.” My talk shares that the worst experiences of our lives – whether it be a mental health or addiction relapse, or even a divorce or loss of a loved one – are opportunities for growth.
No one says you have to relapse.
But many of us do, right?
And many of us fear that we will again.
I know what it’s like to be told that I have a problem, over and over again, and still not see it for myself.
I also know what it’s like to struggle with deep shame — from both myself and others — and not feel safe seeking help.
I understand the hard emotional work, I remember the battles with cravings, and I, most of all, remember the kind people who believed that I could get better.
I’ve been through the 12 steps. I’ve participated in non-12-step programs, too. I’ve learned from great mentors and leaders. I even studied the neuroscience of addiction.
But I don’t push what worked for me onto others. There’s no one-size-fits-all treatment.
Now, I dedicate my practice to learning specialized, efficient therapies that are clinically proven to work faster than traditional talk therapy. Not just surface-level coping skills or craving management.
Because we know there’s always something underneath the addiction.
And I take a multi-pronged approach to help you establish a lifestyle that fits with your definition of recovery.
I bring EMDR for addiction, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy for addiction (DBT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for addiction (CBT) — but more than that, I bring respect, curiosity, and a belief that your story matters.